Last week i spent an entire five hours shopping for a single purse around town.I roamed the shops across town looking for "the purse".I wanted something chic,edgy yet classic.In fact i was looking for a posh purse.Think Chanel..PAUSE
What color did i want?i don't know,i mean i left home with burgandy in mind(it's 'La Color'this season besides,everyone loves a good burgandy shade)-but then i got in town and four botiques later i was confused.Im indecisive at times you should know,there were too many choices!i wanted them all!i wanted all of them!but i could only have one :(
An hour into my further confusion i decided to sit down for a tall glass of water and called my friend -D to help me see what else is out there.For me.And with neither squims or complaints she was in town in less than 20minutes,with Two small lattes.Ahh true friends.
We got our gossip on,discussed Miley's hair longer than we should have and threw about theories about how Paris is dunzo and LINDZlo is promiscuous.Then strapped into too many other botiques i can't be bothered to count.And guess what?
I still hadn't found my purse.All other purses were either too big,too broad,too small,too neon too detailed or they had not enough of the it factor or pockets.
So yes.i ended up going home without a purse.And worse is this isn't the first time i have left home in a bid to go shopping only to come with nothing.My problem is not that i can't find anything,my problem and blessing is that im a perfectionist.I refuse to settle,im indecisive and im loyal especially to myself.
Thursday, June 13, 2013
Taking Cue From a Legal Blonde.
In real life,if i met Elle Woods i would stare her down and treat her like paper.
Girl sounds stupid,walks like she has a stick up her ass,wears too much pink and has a pretentious little dog that goes with her white girl voice.ugh it makes me sick.
But being such a girl,i love movies with pretentious characters like her and especially more if the movie has depth.And with Legally Blonde even the Blonde had depth (shocker)and she is like major inspiring.
So from her im learning a few things.
1"Do you think she woke up one day and thought im going to law school?"
-After getting dumped by a shady douche whom she unfortunately still wanted to be with she decided to challenge herself by passing up on greek parties,pillow fights to study so she could reach the minimum 175 GPA needed for her to get into Harvard.And she did end up getting into Harvard with a 178GPA.Impressive,I know!
-Which as i take it,challenges me to think if Elle Could do it.So can i.And it doesn't have to be for Love as she also went for a BILL in LG2.simply for passion and sentimental values.
2"So because im not a Vanderbilt im suddenly white trash?i grew up in Bel-Air,Warner across the street from Aaron Spelling.I think most people would agree that's better than some stinky old Vanderbilt."
-Doesn't matter how impressive you are,someone is not going to be impressed and they will probably put you down for it.For whatever reason.What you can do is not argue the fool but rather go out of your way to show them you are the finest.And if they still are not impressed,well you would have stimulated your brain and got out a pretty impressive workout and lesson from it hopefully.
3"Exercise gives you endorphins.Endorphins make you happy.Happy people don't just shoot their husbands.They just don't!"
-Thinking about the bigger picture should be whats done always.Thinking about the prior affect and the after effect before passing judgement.As there always is more to a picture.
Girl sounds stupid,walks like she has a stick up her ass,wears too much pink and has a pretentious little dog that goes with her white girl voice.ugh it makes me sick.
But being such a girl,i love movies with pretentious characters like her and especially more if the movie has depth.And with Legally Blonde even the Blonde had depth (shocker)and she is like major inspiring.
So from her im learning a few things.
1"Do you think she woke up one day and thought im going to law school?"
-After getting dumped by a shady douche whom she unfortunately still wanted to be with she decided to challenge herself by passing up on greek parties,pillow fights to study so she could reach the minimum 175 GPA needed for her to get into Harvard.And she did end up getting into Harvard with a 178GPA.Impressive,I know!
-Which as i take it,challenges me to think if Elle Could do it.So can i.And it doesn't have to be for Love as she also went for a BILL in LG2.simply for passion and sentimental values.
2"So because im not a Vanderbilt im suddenly white trash?i grew up in Bel-Air,Warner across the street from Aaron Spelling.I think most people would agree that's better than some stinky old Vanderbilt."
-Doesn't matter how impressive you are,someone is not going to be impressed and they will probably put you down for it.For whatever reason.What you can do is not argue the fool but rather go out of your way to show them you are the finest.And if they still are not impressed,well you would have stimulated your brain and got out a pretty impressive workout and lesson from it hopefully.
3"Exercise gives you endorphins.Endorphins make you happy.Happy people don't just shoot their husbands.They just don't!"
-Thinking about the bigger picture should be whats done always.Thinking about the prior affect and the after effect before passing judgement.As there always is more to a picture.
Thursday, June 6, 2013
TO TEXT OR NOT TO TEXT?
Here's the scene you just went out with a totally cute guy on a date.Things were left on a positive note and the following day you just want to text him.Or maybe not because that would just be too pathetic and you will seem too needy...Ah!!!to text or not to text.
THE NEED!*grunts*
I think it's safe to say that this is one of the most common topics during brunch and on the run lattes with the girls.right?
Personally i ALWAYS play it cold and cool.I know it seems absolutely old fashioned and extreme feminists are going to say im dispecable and are going to make me the butt of their jokes but i believe a guy should be one to text first.That said it's always best to feel out the situation.If you and "cuteguy" have a mutual friend,ask if your friend heard anything about the date or you.Otherwise i think it's best to hold out.
But say you can't handle the wait and do decide to text him and don't get a responce,it's safe and smart to assume he isn't into you as you are or seemed to be.At this point take back your pride and delete his number and email but not facebook or twitter that will be just too bitter and you don't want to seem that way now.Do you?yep didn't so.
And if you chosee to hold out only for him to not get in contact then after 7days days delete his number and email,having him in your contact list will bring you bad luck.With this i feel that i should also mention deleting any contact mail and number to any guy who asked for your number,you exchanged numbers with only for him to go AWOL....delete.delete.press that button...take back your pride ;>
#itsmikaylaspeaking
THE NEED!*grunts*
I think it's safe to say that this is one of the most common topics during brunch and on the run lattes with the girls.right?
Personally i ALWAYS play it cold and cool.I know it seems absolutely old fashioned and extreme feminists are going to say im dispecable and are going to make me the butt of their jokes but i believe a guy should be one to text first.That said it's always best to feel out the situation.If you and "cuteguy" have a mutual friend,ask if your friend heard anything about the date or you.Otherwise i think it's best to hold out.
But say you can't handle the wait and do decide to text him and don't get a responce,it's safe and smart to assume he isn't into you as you are or seemed to be.At this point take back your pride and delete his number and email but not facebook or twitter that will be just too bitter and you don't want to seem that way now.Do you?yep didn't so.
And if you chosee to hold out only for him to not get in contact then after 7days days delete his number and email,having him in your contact list will bring you bad luck.With this i feel that i should also mention deleting any contact mail and number to any guy who asked for your number,you exchanged numbers with only for him to go AWOL....delete.delete.press that button...take back your pride ;>
#itsmikaylaspeaking
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